When Cake Means Fear

When Cake Means Fear

Cake is just cake. There’s chocolate cake. Vanilla cake. And my personal favorite. . .coconut cake. There’s cake for your birthday (a cake-worthy day if ever there was one), cake for end of treatment (seriously, get a BIG cake for that), and cake for the...
The Craving Conundrum

The Craving Conundrum

Why do you cave to the crave?   For certain foods.  And then freak out. I have many clients who struggle with cravings. . .meaning, they think they’re a bad thing and try hard not to have any.  Let’s begin by distinguishing between a...
When Food’s the Enemy

When Food’s the Enemy

After you finish treatment, it’s normal to feel unmoored.  Meaning, you have little confidence and perhaps even less certainty about how you should feel or behave. You don’t know what you should do, now that all the urgency has come to a screeching...
Fear Stacking

Fear Stacking

Are you afraid of FORBIDDEN FOODS?  A client recently shared this thought with me: “Understanding that I can eat those forbidden foods helps me realize I have the power to choose.” I invited her to consider her words and thoughts. Forbidden means NOT...